Tuesday 12 January 2016

Some useful tips ..

      Do not write "the same" in an email.
Example - I will try to organize the project artifacts and inform you of the same when it is done.
This is somewhat an Indian construct. It is better written simply as:
I will try to organize the project artifacts and inform you when that is done

2.         Do not write or say, "I have some doubts on this issue"
          The term "Doubt" is used in the sense of doubting someone - we use this term because in Indian languages, the word for a "doubt"        
and a "question" is the same.
          The correct usage (for clients) is:
          I have a few questions on this issue

3.         The term "regard" is not used much in American English. They usually do not say "regarding this issue" or "with regard to this".
          Simply use, "about this issue".

4.         Do not say "Pardon" when you want someone to repeat what they said. The word "Pardon" is unusual for them and is somewhat
            formal. You can say, 'Please come again or could you please repeat.'

5.       Americans do not understand most of the Indian accent immediately - They only understand 75% of what we speak and then interpret the
rest. Therefore try not to use shortcut terms such as "Can't" or "Don't". Use the expanded "Cannot" or "Do not".

6.       Do not use the term "screwed up" liberally. If a situation is not good, it is better to say, "The situation is messed up". Do not use words
such as "shucks", or "pissed off".

7.         As a general matter of form, Indians interrupt each other constantly in meetings - DO NOT interrupt a client when they are speaking.
     Over the phone, there could be delays - but wait for a short time before responding.

8.       When explaining some complex issue, stop occasionally and ask "Does that make sense?". This is preferrable than "Do you understand
me?"

9.       In email communications, use proper punctuation. To explain something, without breaking your flow, use semicolons, hyphens or
paranthesis. As an example:
          You have entered a new bug (the popup not showing up) in the defect tracking system; we could not reproduce it - although,
          a screenshot would help.
          Notice that a reference to the actual bug is added in paranthesis so that the sentence flow is not broken. Break a long sentence
          using such punctuation.

10.     In American English, a mail is a posted letter. An email is electronic mail.
When you say "I mailed the information to you", it means you sent an actual letter or package through the postal system.
The correct usage is: "I emailed the information to you"

11.     To "prepone" an appointment is an Indian usage. There is no actual word called prepone. You can "advance" an appointment.

12.     In the term "N-tier Architecture" or "3-tier Architecture", the word "tier" is NOT pronounced as "Tire". I have seen many people pronounce it
this way. The correct pronunciation is "tea-yar". The "ti" is pronounced as "tea".

13.     The usages "September End", "Month End", "Day End" are not understood well by Americans. They use these as "End of September",
"End of Month" or "End of Day". 

14.     Americans have weird conventions for time - when they say the time is "Quarter Of One", they mean the time is 1:15. Better to ask them
            the exact time.

15.     Indians commonly use the terms "Today Evening", "Today Night". These are not correct; "Today" means "This Day" where the Day stands
for Daytime. Therefore "Today Night" is confusing. The correct usages are: "This Evening", "Tonight". 
That applies for "Yesterday Night" and "Yesterday Evening". The correct usages are: "Last Night" and "Last Evening".

16.     When Americans want to know the time, it is usual for them to say, "Do you have the time?". Which makes no sense to an indian.

17.     There is no word called "Updation". You update somebody. You wait for updates to happen to the database. Avoid saying "Updation".

18.     When you talk with someone for the first time, refer to them as they refer to you - in America, the first conversation usually starts by
using the first name. Therefore you can use the first name of a client. Do not say "Sir". Do not call women "Madam". 

19.     It is usual convention in initial emails (particularly technical) to expand abbreviations, this way:
We are planning to use the Java API for Registry (JAXR).
          After mentioning the expanded form once, subsequently you can use the abbreviation.

20.     Make sure you always have a subject in your emails and that the subject is relevant.
            Do not use a subject line such as HI.
 
21.       Avoid using "Back" instead of "Back" Use "ago". Back is the worst word for American.(for Days use "Ago", for hours use "before")
 
22.     Avoid using "but" instead of "But" Use "However".  
 
23.     Avoid using "Yesterday" hereafter use "Last day".
 
24.     Avoid using "Tomorrow" hereafter use "Next day".

Monday 11 January 2016

God's beautiful creation.... Woman

The Woman

When God created woman he was working late on the 6th day.An angel came by and said: “Why spend so much time on that one?” 

And the Lord answered:“Have you seen all the specifications I have to meet to shape her ?"

“She must be washable, but not made of plastic, have more than 200 moving parts which all must be replaceable and she must function on all kinds of food, she must be able to embrace several kids at the same 
time, give a hug that can heal anything from a bruised knee to a broken heart and she must do all this with 
only two hands”.

The angel was impressed.
“Just two hands....impossible!“

And this is the standard model?! 

“Too much work for one day....wait until tomorrow and then complete her“.

“I will not”, said the Lord. “I am so close to complete this creation, which will be the favourite of my heart”. 

“She cures herself when sick and she can work 18 hours a day”. 

The angel came nearer and touched the woman. 

“But you have made her so soft, Lord” 

“She is soft", said the Lord, “But I have also made her strong. You can’t imagine what she can endure 
and overcome.“

“Can she think?" the angel asked.  

The Lord answered:

“Not only can she think, she can reason and negotiate."

The angel touched the womans cheek....

“Lord, it seems this creation is leaking! You have put too many burdens on her.” 

“She is not leaking....it’s a tear” the lord corrected  the angel 

“What’s it for?" asked the angel.

And the Lord said: 

“Tears are her way of expressing grief, her doubts,  her love, her loneliness, her suffering and her pride.”

This made a big impression on the angel; “Lord, you are genius.

You thought of everything. The woman is indeed marvellous!"
Indeed she is! 

Woman has strengths that amazes man. She can handle trouble and carry heavy burdens. She holds happiness, love and opinions. 

She smiles when feeling like screaming. 

She sings when she feels like crying, crys when she is happy and laughs when she is afraid. 

She fights for what she belives in.

Stand up against injustice.

She doesn’t take “no” for an answer, when she can see a better solution. She gives herself so her family can thrive. She takes her friend to the doctor if she is afraid.

Her love is unconditional. 

She cries when her kids are victorious. She is happy when her friends do well. 

She is glad when she hears of a birth or a wedding.

Her heart is broken when a next of kin or friend dies.

But she finds the strength to get on with life.

She knows that a kiss and a hug can heal a broken heart. 

There is only one thing wrong with her.....She forgets what she is worth...

Thursday 7 January 2016

True Love..

A SHORT STORY WORTH READING..

It was a busy morning, about 8:30am, when an elderly gentleman in his 80's arrived to have stitches removed from his thumb. He said he was in a hurry, as he had an appointment at 9:00am.

I took his vital signs and had him take a seat, knowing it would be over an hour before someone would to able to see him. I saw him looking at his watch and decided since I was not busy with another patient, I would evaluate his wound.

On examining it I saw it was well healed, so I talked to one of the doctors and got the needed supplies to remove his sutures and redress his wound. While taking care of his wound, I asked him if he had another doctor's appointment this morning, as he was in such a hurry. The gentleman told me no, that he needed to go to the nursing home to eat breakfast with his wife.

I inquired as to her health. He told me that she had been there for a while because she is a victim of Alzheimer's disease. As we talked, I asked if she would be upset if he was a bit late. He replied that she no longer knew who he was, that she had not recognized him for five years now.

I was surprised and asked him, 'And you still go every morning, even though she doesn't know who you are?'

He smiled as he patted my hand and said, 'She doesn't know me but I still know who she is.'

I had to hold back tears as he left. I had goose bumps on my arm and thought, 'That is the kind of love I want in my life."

True love is neither physical nor romantic. True love is an acceptance of all that is, has been, will be, and will not be.

Remember that the small deeds that we do in life really matter.

Its only words that I have to take your heart away..wow so romantic.. another favorite of mine

Smile, an everlasting smile
A smile can bring you near to me
Don't ever let me find you gone
Cause that would bring a tear to me
This world has lost it's glory
Lets start a brand new story
Now my love
You think that I don't even mean
A single word I say...
It's only words
And words are all I have
To take your heart away

Talk, in everlasting words
And dedicate them all, to me
And I will give you all my life
I'm here if you should call to me
You think that I don't even mean
a single word I say...



Da da da da da da da
Da da da da da da da da
Da da da da da da da da
Da da da da da da da da

This world has lost it's glory
Let's start a brand new story
Now, my love
You think that I don't even mean
a single word I say...

Back with a Bbanggggg!!!!! luved this song

Shepinchene nannu na gatham
Aalasyamaindani tanaku nee parichayam
Nuvvenata ikapai naa jeevitham
Shapamaina varamla thochene ee kshanam
Yemito, ivaale rekkalochinattu, vinthaga, aksham anchu thaakuthunna
Gundene, korukkuthinna kallu chusinanthane, manassu navve modatisari
Em marpidi, yedari yendamaavi uppenai munchene, kale kaadu ga
Neevallane, bharinchaleni theepi badhale
Aagani, prayanamai, yugaluga, saagina, o kalama
Nuvve aaguma, thane naa chentha nundaga, tharamake o doorama doorama
Nuvveleni nenu lenuga, lene lenuga, lokanne jayinchina
Nee prema valla ponduthunna haayimundu vodipona
Jaarindile, jhallantu vaana chinuku thaaki thadisindile, naalo praaname
Ee bhaadake, premanna maata thakkuvaindi gaa
Gundelo, cheravuga, uchvasalaaga maarake, nishvasalaa
Neeke, nyaama, nanne maarchi yerugananthaga, nuvvalaa unnavelaa
Ninnallone nindipokalaa, nijamloki raa
Kalalathone kaalayapana, nizaalajaada neeve antu melukuvai kale choope
Em marpidi neemeeda prema puttukochhe, em cheyanu nuvve cheppavaa
Ee bhaadake, premanna maata thakkuvaindi gaa
Yemito, ivaale rekkalochinattu, vinthaga, aksham anchu thaakuthunna
Gundene, korukkuthinna kallu chusinanthane, manassu navve modatisari
Em marpidi, yedari yendamaavi uppenai munchene, kale kaadu ga
Neevallane, bharinchaleni theepi badhale